We’ve always said (and we’ll say it again!), being an Adonis isn’t just about looks or having a great physique. Sure, a chiseled jawline and rippling abs are a nice bonus, but they’re not the whole story—far from it.
In fact, if you’ve been following us for a while, you might remember our very first blog where we laid it all out:
“Every man, gay, straight, or otherwise, should strive to be the best version of themselves they can be. Be your own perfect man, your own Adonis.”
And no, we don’t mean that in a narcissistic or arrogant way. Being an Adonis isn’t about thinking you’re better than anyone else. It’s about loving yourself, appreciating the journey you’ve been on, and feeling excited about where it’s heading.
Let’s be real for a second—physical beauty fades. That’s just life. The jawline softens, the six-pack might lose a few lines, and the face that once turned heads in every room will change. But do you know what doesn’t fade? Inner beauty. And here’s the kicker: it doesn’t just not fade—it grows stronger.
The Adonis Mindset
To us, being an Adonis is about constant evolution. It’s about striving to be a better version of yourself today than you were yesterday—physically, mentally, and spiritually. It’s a lifelong journey of growth, and it’s those attributes that truly make someone an Adonis. That’s what we celebrate and strive for at Adonis Massage.
But let’s talk about one particular attribute that we think often gets overlooked: manners.
Manners Matter
Now, don’t get me wrong—we love a bit of banter. A cheeky, zesty personality can be a big turn-on, but manners? Oh, honey, manners are super sexy. They’re also non-negotiable.
When you reach out to us, you’ll find we’re always polite, respectful, and professional. Sure, we might throw in a little playful, flirty teasing once we’ve built a rapport, but that never comes at the expense of good old-fashioned respect.
Why? Because everyone’s comfort zones are different. Some people love a bit of cheeky back-and-forth, while others prefer to keep it strictly professional. Both are absolutely fine! The key is taking the time to get to know each individual and figuring out where the lines are.
And hey, it’s a two-way street! When you contact us for the first time – whether it’s by email, text, or phone – please remember: we’re professionals here to provide a quality service. If your tone or communication makes us feel like you’re treating us as anything less than that, we might just have to refer you elsewhere.
Massage Etiquette: Manners Maketh the Man
As they say, “Manners maketh the man.” So, in the spirit of keeping chivalry alive, let’s go over a few points of massage etiquette to ensure everyone has the best experience possible.
Be Clean
This one’s simple: shower before your massage. Bathing with bubbles and a rubber ducky is optional but encouraged for added fun. A clean you is a more confident and comfortable you, and trust us, it makes the whole experience better for everyone involved.
Be On Time
Punctuality is polite. Arriving too late disrupts the flow of the session, but arriving too early can throw things off too. Aim to be right on time—it’s the Goldilocks zone of massage appointments!
Switch Off Your Mobile
We get it—no one ever actually turns off their phone. But at the very least, put it on silent. This is your time to relax and escape from the outside world, and a buzzing phone is the quickest way to ruin that vibe.
Use Your Words
Communication is key. Everyone has different preferences, and we want to know yours. Whether it’s the amount of pressure, specific areas you want avoided, or even the type of massage oil or music you prefer—don’t be afraid to speak up!
Let’s say your left side is super ticklish, or you only like a light touch—just tell us. We’re here to make sure you’re comfortable and that you enjoy the experience.
Dress (or Undress) for Comfort
Here’s the deal: your level of undress is entirely up to you.
- Want to keep your underwear on? Totally fine.
- Prefer to strip down and use a towel for coverage? Cool.
- Feeling bold and want to go au naturel? Go for it!
The important thing is that you feel comfortable. Relaxation is the name of the game, and that’s what we’re here to help you achieve.
Respect is Mutual
At Adonis Massage, we believe in creating a safe, respectful space for everyone. That means we approach every session with professionalism and courtesy, and we expect the same in return.
We know massages can be an intimate experience, and it’s our job to ensure you feel completely at ease. Whether it’s your first time or your fiftieth, our focus is on providing a top-notch experience that leaves you feeling refreshed, recharged, and ready to take on the world.
Why Manners Are Sexy
There’s something undeniably attractive about someone who knows how to treat others with kindness and respect. It shows confidence, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence—all qualities of a true Adonis.
Being well-mannered doesn’t mean being stiff or boring. It’s about knowing how to strike the perfect balance between playfulness, banter and politeness. It’s about showing that you value others while still being your authentic, fun-loving self.
At the end of the day, being an Adonis is about so much more than what’s on the surface. It’s about embracing your journey, constantly striving to grow, and treating yourself and others with respect and kindness.
So, whether you’re booking your first massage or you’re a regular, remember: manners matter, communication is key, and a little self-care goes a long way.
